Friends with Benefits…

“Then he gave me a sweet kiss as if I was his one and only lover.” ― Jess C. Scott, Bedmates I’ve always been the girl with less than a handful of female friends. I believe being the only child, not having my biological father in my life, having a boyfriend at a young age […]

Are BlAck Men Checking 4 Us?

Where are the black men?

Why Da Post Ain’t About Me?

“ And I’m not spying! I’m evaluating!” “It’s the same difference!” ― Kim Harrison, Early to Death, Early to Rise Social media stalking 101 We all do it. Go to his or her social media to see what the person we are interested in is doing, posting,or thinking. The problem is what we interpret the person’s post […]

Trap Claws

I love the show Claws and I love how getting my nails done makes me feel. Nails are a way to express yourself if done by the right person. A nail tech that can capture the essence of your personality is invaluable. The picture above is the work of my girl @annicures (on iG)!! When […]

The News

FREAKY SHIT. Is it anger that keeps me from watching the Central Park Five mini series or G-U-I-L-T? How can I be responsible for my community when I can barely take care of my immediate family? How huge of an impact will my community service, mentor-ship or charity have on my community? I feel someone […]

The PoWeR of a HAIRCUT

“I love my hair because it’s a reflection of my soul. It’s dense, it’s kinky, it’s soft, it’s textured, it’s difficult, it’s easy and it’s fun. That’s why I love my hair.” -Tracee Ellis Ross O-M-G!!! I don’t know whether I am hormonal because my cycle is trying to roar its ugly head…. but b-a-b-y, […]

The Journey Begins

Thanks for joining me! “Feeling comfortable in my own skin makes me feel confident.” ~Jess Glynne~ It’s hard to feel comfortable in your skin, let alone confident, when family members, friends, partners and strangers rub away your protective layers with their insecurities, expectations and regret. I am finding accepting people for who they are makes […]